Stuggle is an option!

I have had so many clients and friends including my Self that seem to be dealing with many challenges and changes in their lives during the past few months. Thus I was inspired to finally get my blog up so I could answer questions, share experiences and inspire my Self and others to live our lives fully and truly create our Diamond lives.

One of things that I know is that we co-create every thing and every one in our life. So if we are in the midst of change or challenge, do we struggle within it? Do we resist what we are co-creating and what the Universe is showing us that we are focusing upon - remember energy flows into what we put our attention to in thoughts, words, feelings, beliefs and actions. What we resist or think about what we don't want, will persist. So where can we allow ourselves to surrender into what we are to learn, experience, heal or grow from what is showing up in our lives? What is the more being given to us?

An Example:
On May 1st, I lost my beloved Sampson, a golden retriever I had for 13-1/2 years. I have no 2-legged children so he was one of my 4-legged children. The lost has been profound since I loved him and him, me, so deeply. The grief has been immense. There are days when I cannot lift my head. I feel his presence all around me but I cannot physically touch him. I have pictures and lochs of his fur I touch to somewhat satisfy my need to physically feel him.

For those of you that are not animal lovers, you may wonder how this is so? Think of it as losing your best buddy who has been there through thick and thin, who loved you when you felt it from no one else including your Self, who was always there whether you were grouchy or in joy, who celebrated with you when you succeeded and who stuck by and comforted you when you felt like a failure. That type of connection is so special and I am so grateful to have felt it.

I have not resisted the pain, the tears. I wonder though when will it stop and the old adeage of time heals all wounds does come into play. I find struggle when I compare it to others. How can I be in this much pain when there are others worse off than me. Then I remind my Self, each of us is here to experience life in our own way so one's pain may not be another's but either is theirs, yours. There is no better than or less than, it is what it is for each person.

I am grateful for the family and firends that support me. I am grateful for the tools I have to help heal it. I meditate daily to connect within, with love, with Source. I use the Universal 'L', The Diamond Co-Creative System (http://www.createyourdaimondlife.com/) to help heal and energize me so I can move forward easily. I affirm each day that all can be easy within the midst of pain, challenge and change.

Easy for me means with ease, grace, flow and love - living only vibrant energy. What connects me with this vibrant energy ... sometimes it in the memories of Sampson and the love that we shared versus focusing on the loss of him. I remember to appreciate him and all that we had together and he is teaching me to do that with all parts of my life.

I know that he wants me to live on and be the brillance of who I am and keep on co-creating a Diamond Life despite what goes on around me. I feel his nose nudging my arm or hand reminding me there is more to life than dwelling in the pain of loss.

Thank you Sampson for your love, for your joy, for your wisdom that shared with me while you were on the planet and that which you share with me in your spirit!